Friday, June 24, 2016

Matured friendship

Friendship has evolved over time just like technology, food, cloth, shelter and almost everything in our world.

Well, matured friendship is what you and I need to grow in this evolving world. Things have since changed from the way we know then and friendship is not an exception. We almost never visit our friends and even if we do we are always talking about this picture on instagram or that video on Facebook or those stories on Snapchat. We are so engrossed with the social media craze, that if we are not hosting about them we are taking selfies to post on them.

We have lost basic friendship, please do not let us lose matured friendship. Let's keep in touch with friends and families on social media and beyond. 

Friendship can be very intresting, amazing and even thrilling but it also comes with its own warcry. It's a norm for friends to misunderstand each other but that doesn't mean blocking each other, especially on social media. It only means we are social media controlled if we do that. Let's not be robotic in our approach to handling issues. We are humans, let us talk and not block. Let us gist and blacklist.

It's only human to cherish and grow friendship, our friends and families are the best of God's creation you can have and they are irreplaceable. They were made by God to guide and guard us in the right direction. We can never have friends and families enough.

A sign of matured friendship is knowing we are going to be wrong and wronged. It is maturity to understand that we need to be corrected and also correct, and not everything should be taken as an offense to our character. 

Everyone needs a friend, and even more.

Friday, June 17, 2016


Reflection! Reflection!! Reflection!!!

When I say "reflection", I do not  intend to explain the physics term which is 'the throwing back by a body or surface of light, heat, or sound without absorbing it'. No I do not mean that, instead I mean this reflection which is a 'serious thought or consideration'.

Reflections are very essential phases we all have in our lives, some folks reflect more often than others but we all have moments we reflect on our thoughts, decisions, actions, speech and sometimes we reflect on life itself. We critically think and re consider some of the decisions we have made that has led us to the path we are currently walking on and often times we realize though traveled far on this path we know and are comfortable with, it is never too late to take a turn back to the starting point and start all over again. To take a new path that will give us the desired outcome we want at the end of our lives.

We need to put everything in perspective and plan as much as we can so we have an excellent result, not living each day as it comes but living each day planned and adjusting to what each day brings. Making decisions after a reflecting are very helpful and important, it is a kind of stop and adjust mechanism we do, that is we stop at intervals, look back and adjust our lives based on changes that have occurred over time. Its very essential we reflect regularly, so as not to go on a path for too long in the wrong direction and find it difficult to to go over to start again.

I know someone is getting anxious to know what metric can be used to reflect. Well the only metric of reflection I know is my Holy Bible. I use my Bible to reflect and set standard for daily living. I will recommend the book of Proverb for anyone and everyone, it has simple and understandable verses you can relate to and reflect on.

Some quotes on Reflections

''Reflect upon your present blessings -- of which every man has many -- not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some"- Charles Dickens

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards."- Seren Kierkegaard

I hope you would reflect more after reading this and learning the importance of reflection.

Maybe some we will sit on a big table to share our experiences and what we had to give up to live right.

Thank you for reading my post.

Friday, June 10, 2016


Love from the heart of the one I Love, I tweaked it though but today's blogpost is his original piece.
"I love love itself, so I guess I understand love to some extent.
Love gives no notice, it just happens.
Love can't be threatened, it isn't scared.
Love is stronger than fear, it is sacrificial.
Love can't be transferred, it never fails or work in error.
Love always hits it's target, it changes everything.
Love intimidates the unloved, it makes people think you're not of this world.
Love makes everyone happy, it teaches and tutors.
Love helps and enlightens everyone, it always sends a message, informs and influences.
Love is patient, it sees you at all times.
Love feeds your body, soul and spirit.
Love can trigger envy, but it's never envious.
Love is never ignorant, it can sometimes look insane.
Love takes care of its own, it is always entertaining.
Love can be translated as anything, it can be misunderstood sometimes.
Love sometimes come with a loud scream, just to add beauty.
Love is always truthful, it sticks to its course.
Love is not suicidal, but can be sacrificial.
Love is always available when needed, it isn't jealous.
Love is always courteous, it makes dream beautiful.
Love compliments, it heals everything.
Love concurs to its loved one, they always sync.

Oh! Love takes care of itself, it presents itself worthy at all times.
Love always take the loved one safe to their destination.
Love takes people away to allow them experience it.
Love is always shown, it is practical.
Love cannot be exhausted, it is never finishes.
Love never doubts its instincts, it teaches the needful and useful.
Love teaches how to love, it makes everything beautiful.
Love makes the heart leaps, it never leaves even when it is rejected.
Love reciprocates kindness,goodness and wellness at all times.
Love never misses its way, it unveils itself in newness at all times.
Love is always cares for, it thinks about the well being of its loved one.
Love knows when to offer what it has, it is selfless.
Love smiles when it is called upon.
Love is in the village and in the city, on the mountain and in the valley, love is everywhere.
Love never copies, it displays its beautiful and original content.
Love can be called anything, but it knows its true name.
Love adds beauty, it doesn't make one get ugly.
Love doesn't hurt the other, either physically or otherwise.
Love shares what is within it, it doesn't share human beings.
Love is never concluded, it's like the deep blue sea.
Love is always with everyone, it's inbuilt in every living being.
Love never withholds, it is playful
Love is abused, but it admonishes.
Love is always real, but might be misunderstood sometimes for real.
Love never says what it doesn't mean, love is true.
Love is not a fight, but it's worth fighting for.
Love doesn't love once, love always loves.
Love gives breathe and life to those in need.
Love doesn't need to prove a point to people, it is all the point needed by the loved one.
Love doesn't oppress people, love uplifts people.
Love doesn't cost a thing, but appreciates the thought. involved when spent on
Love is universal, it has no tribe or race.
Love doesn't go against anyone but goes for the loved one.
Love is openness, it holds no secret.
Love brings to reality all the imaginations that became a dream, dreams and imaginations are synonymous.
They come to reality when love expose them."

Friday, June 3, 2016

The mind

The mind, the home of thoughts, the birth place of ideas, the most powerful part of a person.

The mind is sometimes said to be in the head while others say it's in the heart. The mind is powerful, it has the decision to either make or mar a person. Your mind is so dependent on you, its a tree it grows what you plant in it. If you plant positive things, you will have a positive yield and if otherwise you will have a negative yield.

The mind has been defined as the following:
1. The ability for rational thought.

2. The ability to be aware of things.

3. The ability to remember things.

4. The ability to focus the thoughts

5. Judgement, opinion, or view.

6. Desire, inclination, or intention.

7. A  non-material substance or set of processes in which consciousness, perception,affectiviely, judgement, thinking and will.

The mind is a function of the brain and this it is why an alteration in the brain affects the mind negatively.
 You mind is you and you are your mind. I will recommend you do not get into any compromising act that will alterate your mind.

Remember nobody got the kind of mind you have, you are all by yourself in the world with your kind of mind. Everyone awaits you with your world changing ideas.

Just imagine a Steve Jobs or a Barack Obama or a Mother Theresa not using the mind power and self will they possessed, just imagine that. Battles are first fought in the mind before reality.

Your world awaits you to harness the power of your mind so you can harness your actions, surely we do.